Big sigh of relief all 'round for dodging those bullets.
Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... I haven't heard of any guys legitimately looking for friends on a dating site.- People who are angry that someone has used "friendship" as a cover story for a guilt-free rejection of them.- People who are angry about the use of a search for friendship to disguise a search for commitment free sexual experiences.Plus in all likelihood you will judge me as 'bad' or 'wrong' for some of the things in my behavior limitations so I am not going to be direct with them, you have to read my mind, and know it's inherent in my definition of 'friends'.""IOW I want the power to control your behavior towards giving me what I want, but I have no desire for the responsibility and possible negative judgments. BUT, will take advantage of "dating", meaning let the guy pay the first couple of times.....Therefore I go through the back door and offer you the false gift of friendship. If the man says lets go hang out and says "lets go dutch"....she can pull the "I cant beleive you asked me out and want me to pay!!! ....she can pull the "I do want a friend, I want a lover and a friend, hoping to find both"If you come across a woman looking for friends, call her bluff, ask her out and when the bill comes say...."well here is my half"..see what kind of reaction you get.....1.
I have an account to be able to read and post in the forums, but I'm also open to meeting people and making new friends.