All you have to do is show up, be present and connect with each person when you're with them. If someone asks you if you are dating others, you need to be honest and tell that person that you are, but that you are enjoying spending time with them.You have to be honest at every step along the way and do the right thing. The most important reason to date multiple people, in my opinion, is that it is the number one best way to really find the person you're looking for.It is only by really going out there and looking for someone who excites you that you will find that amazing relationship. They are people who stimulate your mind and your soul.It's all about understanding the law of attraction. Until you go out and work on your inside, there's no way you're going to attract the person you want.
As I said, in the beginning, you don't have to bring up the fact that you're dating around.
Translation: It's rough on the psyche to have multiple sex partners unless you swing or come from a polygamous culture."My old boyfriend and I realized that we have to keep our revived love affair virtual," says the wife described above.
"We had a lingering goodbye kiss -- okay a long make-out -- then when we got home we both realized, 'Put us in the same room and it is absolute, guaranteed disaster for our marriages.' So we communicate online, and maybe, someday we can meet again -- if I outlive my husband..." Her voice trails off.
Feeling sexually and cerebrally charged by others beyond a primary relationship is a natural response of the human animal.
And when kept within limits, who can deny that it feels good?
I want to talk about multiplicity in your dating life. They think someone who dates several people at once must be a cheater, a commitment-phobe or at a minimum, a liar.